Praise is like fresh water that can
offer the human thirst for recognition. And if you are always ready to share
the fresh water to others, you are in a strategic position to be liked by
others. The trick? Open your eyes wide to always see the good in other people's
attitudes and actions. Then offer a sincere praise. Read more...
2. Make other
people important as yourself
Always make it your habit to treat
people with courtesy. Let your attitude and words show how much you cares about
other people. For example, do not let other people wait too long, let the word “sorry”
be written on every pages of your dictionary by saying it as often as you can
especially when are wrong, be time keeper.
3. Become a
good listener
If talk is silver and silence is
golden, then a good listener is more noble of the two. A good listener is a
person who needed and liked by everyone. Give chance to others to talk, ask
questions and make him eager to keep talking. Listen with enthusiasm, and do
not judge or advise when not asked.
4. Always
mention the “Name” correctly
The name is a precious possession
that is very personal. Generally no one like it when his/her name was mentioned/spell correctly or carelessly.
When in doubt, ask how to pronounce and write his/her name correctly. For
example, the person who wrote 4laranme called Folaranmi, very funny abi; yes
indeed. For easy pronunciation, chant the name(s) as often as you can, hence it
boosts your self esteem and makes you loved the more.
5. Be friendly
Everyone is happy when treated
kindly and friendly. Friendliness make others feel welcome and appreciated.
Friendliness makes people feel at ease to be near you.
6. Be generous
You are not going to be poor because
of your willingness heart to give. A very wise man once wrote, generous man who
do good to himself. As such generosity on the one hand is good for you, and on
the other hand is useful for others. Hmn!!! Be generious.
7. Do not
criticize or underestimate
Generally people do not like it when
his weaknesses are known by others, let alone humiliated. All the attacks
directly to the center of self-esteem and can make people defend themselves
with a hostile attitude.
8. Be assertive
People who don’t like the one who
always say yes, but the people who can say 'No' when required. You do not have
to adjust or force them to adapt to you. Do not be afraid to be different with
others. The crucial difference is not a conflict, but the cause of mutual
understanding. Assertiveness is always much appreciated than 'Yes' man
attitude.
9. Do what
“You” want others to “You” Done
Whatever treatment you want from
other people who may live pleasing, that you have to do first. Even the bible
also support it. You must take the initiative to get started. For example, if
you want to watch, start paying attention. When you want to be appreciated,
start to respect others.
10. Love yourself
Loving yourself means accepting
yourself for who you are. likes and do whatever is best for yourself. This is
different from the mean selfish or self-centered, which means self-centered.
The more you like yourself, the easier you love the other person, the more
likely you are to like someone else. By accepting and liking yourself, you will
easily fit in with others, accept them with all its flaws and limitations, work
with them and liked them. At the same time you not limiting or lowering your
standard. Cheers
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